你之间的关系，曾经得到认可吗？是不是他向身边的人介绍过你？
Has your relationship ever been recognized? Did he introduce you to the people around him?
对这类人来说，人间也许只是一个大泥潭。
For such people, the world may just be a big quagmire.
这样循环着，一边渴望爱，一边害怕人心变幻莫测。
This cycle, while longing for love, while afraid of the unpredictable heart.
只是，有人习惯了把伤心的痛苦挂在嘴上，逢人诉苦抱怨；
However, some people are used to talking about the sad pain and complaining to everyone;
一个人过五十，这种状态最好不要过，能让你更清楚地认识自己，取悦自己。
A person over 50, this state is best not to be too, can let you know yourself more clearly and please yourself.
他们往往习惯于远离喧嚣、远离你的吹捧、远离虚伪和浮躁。
They are often used to staying away from the noise, your flattery, hypocrisy and impetuosity.
身在一段不被爱的关系中，随时随地都能感觉到对方的抗拒。
In an unloved relationship, you can feel each others resistance anytime, anywhere.
有时，一个人选择独处，并不是性格的释然，而是过去的种种，让她对身边的人不再有期望。
Sometimes, a person chooses to be alone, not because of the relief of her character, but because of the past, she no longer has expectations for the people around her.
沉静，是一种豁达，与抱怨者相比
Silence is a kind of open-minded, compared with complainants
如果你碰到了什么事情，问你怎么会想起他，甚至还会告诉你他在等你的消息。
If something happens to you, ask how you think of him, and even tell you that he is waiting for you.
爱情故事可以说，但这只是你偶尔的点缀，不是你感情的全部。
Love story can be said, but this is only your occasional embellishment, not all of your feelings.
纪伯伦说生活的意义在于人与人之间的相互照耀。
Gibran said that the meaning of life lies in the mutual illumination between people.
