1.有时候放弃是一个很简单的事，可能并不需要原因，突然你就觉得自己一直执着的东西好像也并没有那么重要了。可能失望久了慢慢的也就真的不需要了吧
Sometimes giving up is a very simple thing, may not need a reason, suddenly you feel that the things you have been clinging to seem not so important. May be disappointed for a long time, slowly also really do not need it
2.她就像一块冰，不管我怎么把她捧在怀里，我自身的温度还是无法将她融化。或许在这个年纪阶段我的确没有资本去爱一个人
She is like an ice, no matter how I hold her in my arms, my own temperature can melt her. Maybe I don have the capital to love someone at this age
3.拉开彼此的距离，每天把自己的生活安排的满满当当，慢慢地剥离和他有关的食物和事物，让自己每天都处于忙碌的状态，
We should keep a distance from each other, make full arrangements for our life every day, and slowly peel off the food and things related to him, so that we can be busy every day,
4.如果他不喜欢我，厌烦我，那么我十八年所学到的仁爱忠恕礼仪廉耻告诉我，不能去打扰他，这样很不礼貌。至于放弃，一切交给时间呗
If he doesn like me and is tired of me, then the kindness, loyalty, etiquette and shame I learned in 18 years tell me that it is impolite not to disturb him. As for giving up, its time
5.她和别人在一起了，我不应该干涉，而且也没有必要继续喜欢，两人走得越来越远，已经不在一个层面了…
Shes with someone else. I shouldn interfereAnd theres no need to continue to likeTwo people go further and further, is no longer in the same level
6.失望到了极致，然后会觉得一切都就那样，个人觉得，人活着一定要快乐，就这样
Disappointed to the extreme, and then will feel that everything is like that, I think, people must be happy to live, thats it
7.突然发现其实自己在他那里也不是那么重要，静下心来相处，发现他也不是那么的和我想的相匹配，慢慢的也就看开了
Suddenly found himself in his place is not so important, calm down to get along with, found that he is not so and I want to match, slowly also see open
8.大概就是时间和距离吧，时间冲淡了执念，距离让你慢慢忘记过去，好像一切都可以重新开始。以后再想起，也不过是一场空罢了
Maybe its time and distance. Time dilutes obsession. Distance makes you forget the past slowly, as if everything can start over again. Think of it later, its just a futility
